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Posted by on Sep 17, 2015 in Abuse, Challenging narratives, education, event, Restorative Justice, Sexuality, Sound Relationship Dungeon, storify, Trauma, Uncategorized | 1 comment

Thank you again to the organizers at CatalystCon for inviting me to speak. It was truly a privilege to have been part of this event. I truly appreciated the opportunity to connect and learn from so many amazing activists, clinicians and educators. For those of you who could not make it to CatalystCon, I am posting the Storify of the class’...

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The Sound Relationship Dungeon Part 7: Life Dreams

The Sound Relationship Dungeon Part 7: Life Dreams

Posted by on Jun 26, 2015 in Challenging narratives, Common Myths, education, Healing, Power Exchange, Sexuality, Sound Relationship Dungeon, Uncategorized | 0 comments

Today I bring you the seventh and penultimate installment of my Sound Relationship Dungeon Series: Making Life Dreams Come True. The Gottmans Describe this level of the relationship house as an atmosphere that encourages each person to talk honestly about his or her hopes, values, convictions and aspirations. In most healthy relationships, there is a space...

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Sound Relationship Dungeon Part 6: Managing Conflict

Sound Relationship Dungeon Part 6: Managing Conflict

Posted by on Apr 6, 2015 in Breaking Silence, Challenging narratives, Common Myths, education, Power Exchange, Sound Relationship Dungeon, storify, troubleshooting kink, Uncategorized | 0 comments

Today’s installment of the Sound Relationship Dungeon is all about managing conflict. Whenever we make the choice to connect or share intimacy with another human being, we run the risk of hurting someone and being hurt. It’s part of the whole “being human” thing. No ones’ feelings, core values, and perspectives ever match 100%...

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Sound Relationship Dungeon Part 5: Positive Perspective

Sound Relationship Dungeon Part 5: Positive Perspective

Posted by on Mar 16, 2015 in Challenging narratives, education, Sound Relationship Dungeon, Uncategorized | 0 comments

One of my favorite sex ed/sex related webcomics, Oh Joy Sex Toy, recently posted two awesome comics on BDSM Safety and the 50 Shades Series  Erica Moen rocks my metaphorical stripey socks. In the 50 Shades post, she does an awesome job of explaining the more problematic aspects of the book, the reasons she likes the books anyway, and...

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