We Need to Talk About R Kelly

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Fictional Sex

I had the distinct privilege of being heavily quoted in a recent Broadly piece about beloved characters' sex lives. It's a fun article that is well worth the read. I sent a lot of info to the author of that article, and only so much of my response could make it into the piece. I figured it would be … Continue reading →

Trump Voters and the Empathy Cudgel

I imagine I'm not the only one who felt the world turn upside down on November 9th. I feel like Malcom Reynolds watching the Alliance decimate Serenity valley. Nothing is the same. And I, for one, am scared. Not just for myself, but also my friends, loved ones, and clients. I'm not alone. And I … Continue reading →

Bisexual identity and Orlando

I, like so many, am struggling to process the recent massacre in Orlando. If you or someone you know were impacted by this tragedy, I mourn with you. No one should have to shoulder the crushing weight of this grief alone. And yet... For many people who don't fit neatly in certain identity boxes, … Continue reading →

Thoughts on the Stanford Sexual Assault Case

So, I've been reading a lot about the Stanford sexual assault case. The victim's testimony broke my heart (all the sexual assault content warnings. But the letter, start to finish, is an important read) I read horrifically uninformed and callous defense put forth by the perpetrator's father. And … Continue reading →